It is time for something different in your partnership. You’ve tried more conventional approaches, but you still don’t have the depth of emotional & sexual intimacy you desire. This is when you find me.

Unlike other sex coaches or therapists, I “get in the bedroom” with you. I meet every moment with exactly what is needed.

Here are some examples of where we can go together: A guided polarity practice, a worship scene, yoni & lingam massage, intro to Tantra, Dom/Sub play, embodied clearing, role play, kink scenes, tapping into archetypes that ramp up the erotic energy, threesome fantasies…

All of these will support you to remember together, how much love still exists in your relationship and that it just needs attention & nurturing.

You may also be here just because you want to mix it up. Because you want to deepen your already amazing connection. You want to learn more skills. You want a new way to play. You want some new and edgy. Enter me. Invite me to join you for an evening.

Here are some options for how we can journey together:

Fun Night In - $2,500 (3 hours) or $1,700 (2 hours)

You are craving something to spice it up. You have been sharing fantasies of “another woman” and now you are ready to act on it. Women, maybe you’ve been curious about being with another woman for years. Or perhaps you want to gift your man a wild evening. You will both be met in your fullest expressions and desires in our time together. Men, you will leave feeling reminded of your sexy, wild power and women, you will leave so filled with pleasure it will be oozing out of you for weeks. When was the last time you truly played together?

Celebrate your love for each other - treat yourself to a Fun Night In.

Sacred Intimacy Deep Dive - $4,600 (6 hours)

You are ready to go deeper. There is something currently missing from your partnership. You want to discover something new or rekindle the aliveness that used to be there. Women, you are dying to feel met. Men, you feel like everything you try is meet with dissatisfaction. In our day together, we will give each of you what you need to feel desired, honored, turned on.

We will find the thread of sacred intimacy that was buried under process and resentment. We will make a bold return to love and erotic aliveness between you. Our time together will focus on embodiment, connection, play, & clearing what is in the way of loving each other in Sacred Union - the third way that opens when love & consciousness truly meet.

Your partnership deserves this level of attention - find devotion in a new way, Let’s deep dive into Sacred Intimacy together. It get’s to be easy, fun, sexy, & nourishing.

Sacred Intimacy Offerings for Couples

Testimonial from a year-long couple client: 

“When my wife and I reached out to Sofia, we had just begun exploring tantric love and touch. After 20 years together and now in our 40s, we found ourselves in unfamiliar territory. We were evolving — individually and as a couple — and struggling to communicate our new desires or even fully understand who we had grown into.

On a personal level, I felt like I wasn’t desired by my wife anymore. We were still intimate, but something was missing. The passion. The intention. The polarity. I didn’t just want sex — I wanted to feel wanted. I wanted to feel like a man again. I wanted to feel desirable, lusted after, chosen. I longed to feel erotic energy from my wife the way I did in our 20s — to feel like I was her man.

We committed to working with Sofia for a full year. It was a financial investment, yes — but more importantly, it was a commitment to each other. A declaration that our intimacy — sexually, emotionally, spiritually — mattered enough to go all in.

Over six intensives throughout the year, we experienced both profound pleasure and deep discomfort. The pleasure came in rediscovering connection and awakening new layers of intimacy. The discomfort came from stretching into new edges — facing truths about ourselves, breaking old patterns, and learning how to meet each other in more honest and vulnerable ways.

Sofia was incredible every step of the way. She guided us individually and as a couple with strength, compassion, and unwavering presence. In moments when one of us wanted to quit, she helped us find our way back to each other. In the most intimate and expansive experiences, she ensured we both felt safe, seen, and supported.

This journey may have started because of me — but the greatest testament to Sofia’s work is that by the end of the year, it was my wife who wasn’t ready for it to end.

Sofia helped me feel desired again as a man. More importantly, she helped us create a deeper level of intimacy than we knew was possible after two decades together. It wasn’t always easy — but nothing worth having ever is. We are profoundly grateful.”